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	<title>Comments on: No Sinners in My House</title>
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		<title>By: Approaching Heaven, Mummies and Infinity &#124; PhD in Parenting</title>
		<link>http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/11/10/no-sinners-in-my-house/#comment-89911</link>
		<dc:creator>Approaching Heaven, Mummies and Infinity &#124; PhD in Parenting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Nov 2010 02:33:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] away with &#8220;Jesus loves you&#8221;, promises of Heaven, or threats of Hell. We can&#8217;t write things off as sins and leave it as that, a more nuanced conversation is required. But at the same time, it is easier, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] away with &#8220;Jesus loves you&#8221;, promises of Heaven, or threats of Hell. We can&#8217;t write things off as sins and leave it as that, a more nuanced conversation is required. But at the same time, it is easier, [...]</p>
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		<title>By: MyFeminineMind</title>
		<link>http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/11/10/no-sinners-in-my-house/#comment-82064</link>
		<dc:creator>MyFeminineMind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 19:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My favorite definition of sin: not loving another person. 
I think this definition displays the heart of the issue, and doesn&#039;t make life about following an arbitrary set of rules.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My favorite definition of sin: not loving another person.<br />
I think this definition displays the heart of the issue, and doesn&#8217;t make life about following an arbitrary set of rules.</p>
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		<title>By: Progressive parenting from a position of privilege? &#124; PhD in Parenting</title>
		<link>http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/11/10/no-sinners-in-my-house/#comment-65407</link>
		<dc:creator>Progressive parenting from a position of privilege? &#124; PhD in Parenting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jun 2010 21:53:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] and my aspirations as a parent. I sometimes write about teaching my children to embrace diversity, to not be closed minded, to be creative, and to be empathetic. Those are all things that I think will help them to be [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] and my aspirations as a parent. I sometimes write about teaching my children to embrace diversity, to not be closed minded, to be creative, and to be empathetic. Those are all things that I think will help them to be [...]</p>
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		<title>By: IComLeavWe: Day 2 &#124; PhD in Parenting</title>
		<link>http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/11/10/no-sinners-in-my-house/#comment-26808</link>
		<dc:creator>IComLeavWe: Day 2 &#124; PhD in Parenting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 20:13:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I don&#8217;t believe in God. I don&#8217;t practice a religion. I think that some concepts, like sin, may do more harm than good. Among religions and the religious, I find a wide range from inspiring [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I don&#8217;t believe in God. I don&#8217;t practice a religion. I think that some concepts, like sin, may do more harm than good. Among religions and the religious, I find a wide range from inspiring [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Choice</title>
		<link>http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/11/10/no-sinners-in-my-house/#comment-13690</link>
		<dc:creator>Choice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 14:58:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] a lesser person, given less advantageous tax status, or be considered to be &#8220;living in sin&#8221; if I choose to live with a [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] a lesser person, given less advantageous tax status, or be considered to be &#8220;living in sin&#8221; if I choose to live with a [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Let me provoke you&#8230;and beg for your votes &#124; PhD in Parenting</title>
		<link>http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/11/10/no-sinners-in-my-house/#comment-9191</link>
		<dc:creator>Let me provoke you&#8230;and beg for your votes &#124; PhD in Parenting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 18:50:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] out of job, or feminism, fathers and valuing parenthood. Challenging people to question things like religion and sin or consumerism. Getting people to think about our empathy deficit and lack of support for true [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] out of job, or feminism, fathers and valuing parenthood. Challenging people to question things like religion and sin or consumerism. Getting people to think about our empathy deficit and lack of support for true [...]</p>
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		<title>By: phdinparenting</title>
		<link>http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/11/10/no-sinners-in-my-house/#comment-7459</link>
		<dc:creator>phdinparenting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 04:13:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;@Allie:&lt;/strong&gt; I believe in laws, developed through democratic process, to protect everyone&#039;s well being and developed under an assumption of innocent until proven guilty. That, to me, is very different from saying that (a) everyone is a sinner and (b) there is some divine being that decides what is right and wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>@Allie:</strong> I believe in laws, developed through democratic process, to protect everyone&#8217;s well being and developed under an assumption of innocent until proven guilty. That, to me, is very different from saying that (a) everyone is a sinner and (b) there is some divine being that decides what is right and wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: Allie</title>
		<link>http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/11/10/no-sinners-in-my-house/#comment-7414</link>
		<dc:creator>Allie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 14:16:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It definitely appears you have put a ton of thought into your non-religion parenting philosophy. I appreciate the research and thinking time you have brought to this post. 
 
Is the concept of sin only derived from religion, though? Because, if you do not believe in any sin AT ALL then, hmmm, things get REALLY tricky!

You mentioned:

&quot;certainly have values that I want to pass on to my children, but I want them to understand that those are my values, those are not THE right values. &lt;b&gt;Other people believe other things and value other things and that is fine&lt;/b&gt;.&quot;

and 

&quot;I respect everyone’s right to pass on the values that they think are important to their children. But as soon as they start saying that something is bad or sinful for everyone, versus just being wrong for their family, then I think this starts to create barriers.&quot; 

If a family encourages cannibalism because it is something they value and believe is right is it still okay? If a man believes it is entirely in his own right (and has no ill-conscious or moral questioning) about molesting YOUR child, would you still think he was not sinning? Is it perfectly acceptable, just because someone was raised to not feel badly about it, to torture pets? 

You say, &quot;Other people believe other things and value other things and that is fine&quot; and &quot;But as soon as they start saying that something is bad or sinful for everyone,&quot; so I&#039;m assuming that the above scenarios are OKAY with you because, if not, it would be BAD and/or SINFUL for...EVERYONE.

I&#039;m very curious to hear your thoughts on this, especially after reading one of your latest posts on what constitutes a &quot;bad mommy&quot; (because, according to this post, no one can be a bad mommy--they are only being the mom they want and try to be!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It definitely appears you have put a ton of thought into your non-religion parenting philosophy. I appreciate the research and thinking time you have brought to this post. </p>
<p>Is the concept of sin only derived from religion, though? Because, if you do not believe in any sin AT ALL then, hmmm, things get REALLY tricky!</p>
<p>You mentioned:</p>
<p>&#8220;certainly have values that I want to pass on to my children, but I want them to understand that those are my values, those are not THE right values. <b>Other people believe other things and value other things and that is fine</b>.&#8221;</p>
<p>and </p>
<p>&#8220;I respect everyone’s right to pass on the values that they think are important to their children. But as soon as they start saying that something is bad or sinful for everyone, versus just being wrong for their family, then I think this starts to create barriers.&#8221; </p>
<p>If a family encourages cannibalism because it is something they value and believe is right is it still okay? If a man believes it is entirely in his own right (and has no ill-conscious or moral questioning) about molesting YOUR child, would you still think he was not sinning? Is it perfectly acceptable, just because someone was raised to not feel badly about it, to torture pets? </p>
<p>You say, &#8220;Other people believe other things and value other things and that is fine&#8221; and &#8220;But as soon as they start saying that something is bad or sinful for everyone,&#8221; so I&#8217;m assuming that the above scenarios are OKAY with you because, if not, it would be BAD and/or SINFUL for&#8230;EVERYONE.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m very curious to hear your thoughts on this, especially after reading one of your latest posts on what constitutes a &#8220;bad mommy&#8221; (because, according to this post, no one can be a bad mommy&#8211;they are only being the mom they want and try to be!)</p>
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		<title>By: Diane</title>
		<link>http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/11/10/no-sinners-in-my-house/#comment-5378</link>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 13:39:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Came here from Sarah&#039;s site.  Wow.  I cannot fathom why people would come here and comment on your beliefs.  This is how you live your life.  I respect that.  I can&#039;t understand why people want to tell you that you are wrong.  

This is one of the reasons I do not follow any religion.  I do not like to be told what to believe or have someone else&#039;s belief systme imposed upon me.  

Great post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Came here from Sarah&#8217;s site.  Wow.  I cannot fathom why people would come here and comment on your beliefs.  This is how you live your life.  I respect that.  I can&#8217;t understand why people want to tell you that you are wrong.  </p>
<p>This is one of the reasons I do not follow any religion.  I do not like to be told what to believe or have someone else&#8217;s belief systme imposed upon me.  </p>
<p>Great post.</p>
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		<title>By: MommyNamedApril</title>
		<link>http://www.phdinparenting.com/2008/11/10/no-sinners-in-my-house/#comment-2015</link>
		<dc:creator>MommyNamedApril</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Feb 2009 19:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well put</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well put</p>
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