Comments on: How not to have a natural birth

By: Kahni

Kahni — Wed, 05 Oct 2011 13:13:29 +0000

I was 37 weeks pregnant with my first child, when I had the nightmare experience of my OB mocking me DURING an exam to check my dilation and effacement. I was shocked into silence, but I did have the courage to check out of that appointment and find another provider who would take me that late in my pregnancy. I did not want that man at the birth of my precious child. All I could picture was a birth gone horribly wrong and that was enough motivation for me to walk away and never look back.

By: Sam

Sam — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 15:12:07 +0000

“Many hospitals with the same attitude don’t have a sign hanging out front.”

THAT is so true.

By: Walton Goldenstein

Walton Goldenstein — Mon, 08 Nov 2010 19:28:11 +0000

I’d come to accede with you on this. Which is not something I typically do! I enjoy reading a post that will make people think. Also, thanks for allowing me to speak my mind!

By: Rebecca M.

Rebecca M. — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 04:48:37 +0000

Unfortunately, I think it would make most first-time moms believe that those 3 things are “fringe” activities which must be dangerous — otherwise, why would these doctors say they won’t participate in these things? Why would they imply that having them would be contrary to the welfare and health of the baby? Aren’t we supposed to trust our doctors? Aren’t they here to help us??

Our culture teaches that birth is dangerous and that doctors are gods, the only ones who can save our unborn babies from all that threatens them. Women don’t realize that most complications of birth are iatrogenic (caused by doctors), and if someone tries to share the facts, that person is called paranoid or a “hippie freak” or “martyr” (if we try to talk about natural birth). Women in our country don’t do their research, so they don’t know what’s wrong with the system, or how to fix it.

By: JessieLeigh

JessieLeigh — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 12:49:36 +0000

Oh, I saw this picture the other day and it horrified me… even though I will never again have a natural birth (emergency classic c-section at 24 weeks w/ my 2nd baby). This ranks right up there with the “lactation consultant” who recently told my best friend to give her newborn formula if she wasn’t “absolutely, positively sure the baby was full”… guess whose milk supply dwindled?

By: Karen Bannan

Karen Bannan — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 05:28:47 +0000

It’s always about the money, isn’t it? A friend gave birth on Halloween. Her doctor was going on vacation this week and told her he’d like to induce so he could be around to deliver the baby. Uhh…and WHY would she want to agree to that?

Too many women don’t realize that it’s their bodies and their babies. And that they have the right to say no to any and all interventions.

By: phdinparenting

phdinparenting — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 23:47:02 +0000

@angelawd: If that is what they meant, that is what they should say. Doing whatever is necessary in an emergency was the policy at my hospital, but they didn’t need to ban doulas, birth plans and the Bradley method in order to do that.

By: angelawd

angelawd — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 22:17:05 +0000

For heaven’s sake, don’t you think you’re reading a lot into that sign? Couldn’t it be that the doctors meant what they said – that if an emergency came up, they would do whatever was necessary?

I don’t understand how people can get all worked up by a sign. If they don’t like the policy, can’t they go elsewhere for their care? Unless this is a government-funded clinic, aren’t they legally allowed to make the policies that seem best for them?

By: Jennifer A

Jennifer A — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 16:57:07 +0000

Wow, the practice is bringing back births a la 1950; drugged, no dad present, strapped to a table and having to convince the mom that she ACTUALLY gave birth! Yes this is how my grandmothers gave birth. My mom and aunt had natural labors. I got epidurals thanks to pitocin suck in.
Even thought my OB turned out not to be very supportive of natual births and avoiding c-sections with breech presentations (learned HARD lesson with second child), this is appaling in this day and age.

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